Thats an unconventional start eh???
Its been a while…almost a year actually, since I got down to writing something. In that sense you could call me something of a ‘Phasal Writer’ (ya..thats not even a word..but you get the gist don’t you??)….’Phasal’ coz I have far too many phases when it comes to writing and ‘Writer’ coz…well….in the traditional sense of the word, I WRITE!!!!
…to add on to that lets just say, when it comes to writing, till the time my ‘Reflective’ phase (thats just one of the phases mind you) doesn’t have enough food for thought, I just view my pen as a Sport..something that keeps my fingers occupied as I slide and rotate it between my fingers. Also, if I may have the permission to add, those of you who feel Reflection=Boring=Where’s my Disprin?….well….respect your free will..its calling out to other websites, so push the button and hey..what are you waiting for..ESCAPE…
You may be thinking, this lady writes ‘Once in a YEAR’..this blog is gonna be a drag..I’d like to add this statement to that thought….’You got it Dude, thats just how its gonna be’…..you see, I’d rather not lay down expectations I can’t meet. I believe that if once in a year I can write something that leaves an impact on you, I’d prefer to do that…I’d not want to write for the heck of decorating my blog.
Hmmm…Lets see then..this is probably not the best way to start a blog but I guess, I am not much of a traditionalist (and yes..That IS a word alright..). There are some experiences, thoughts that we like to share with people and then there are some that are exclusively ‘For my mind only’. Here, in this space, I’ll strive to bring out those, that have made me grow as a person and Being the ‘hardcore’ Psychologist that I am, I can’t help (its in my psycho blood) but ‘Push’ , oops..pardon me…(I’d like to think) ‘Inspire’ you with these thoughts.
Keeping in line with that spirit, the first thing I want to leave you by is this thought, ’ Life is a series of choices and every situation presented to us is a validation of that philosophy….in essence, Human beings are good people..yet there are times when we consciously hurt people…commit evil and leave scars on others that will never fade away…and while we defend our actions by saying,’We didn’t have a choice’..we choose to ignore that in every action that we displayed..the only constant that was reflected was OUR CHOICE…..Think.. And ask yourself, Are we ready yet????’

I agree, OUR ACTIONS reflects OUR CHOICES, reverse is also true, OUR CHOICES lead to OUR ACTIONS.
We hurt our people around, the one we love, or want to love or wanted to be loved, or refused to be loved.
Whatever we do, it is our choice, not the other person’s choice.
Good start, keep it up
-S
did u just break up??
You started a blog! Expectations or no expectations girrl- I am going to push…oops…inspire you to have blog-conversations with me now
Hey..glad to see u guys here..:)
- Yay Astha me started a blog..I know u’ve been urging me for long..I finally put ur urges into my practice..ha ha
- Supriya what makes u think I broke up???I’ve always been like this haven’t I???you know me girl..
- S..Thanks for the encouragement…I’m glad you AGREE for once on what I have to say..:)
I think you got me as someone else you already know. I am just a visitor, randomly was surfing and visited your blog.
..he who once said..
..in rain there is sorrow..
..he who once said..
..it will be better tomorow..
..has never learned..
..the meaning to live..
..has never learned..
..to share and to give..
..oh my dear friend..
..it was once said..
..to live with purpose..
..is but to be dead..
..find a purpose..
..unimportant..
..as it it may seem..
..and in the days ahead..
..it will Fulfill..
..your dreams..
kudos to yu girl for having taken the first step….:-)…..I am sure that this “choice” would definitely leave ur footprints which we all can always turn back to and let the thoughts toss n turn….looking forward to reading more ‘of’ yu….loads of luv
Hey… this is really nice… that you have started writing… now we all can read your blog whenever we want.
Good start, keep it up
-Saurabh
Surbhi- its wonderful to see you here girl….:)
S- Apologize..mistook you for someone else.
Saurabh- Thanks for visiting my blog.
Sometimes you do find yourself up against the wall, with only one way forward. Those are the times you don’t have a choice.
Sure, the dead ends are created by other choices in the web we weave of our lives, but we don’t know the future and can’t always correctly predict three moves ahead…
So I leave a lot of room for ‘not having a choice’ … but also agree that it is not to be meant as a copout … most times you DO have a choice, and said choice will spin another thread from point A to point B, thereby blocking off other choices you might have had in the future, and making your way to others you would not have had access to.
So life is made up of choices, yes, but sometimes you can only choose one option out of one as well.
Just how I see it.
Great start! Keep up the good work and hope to hear more from you .
hey !!!
every moment is the best moment to start with ….
its better to be now than never…so a very gud start…
hope to hear from you more and more…
hey anki great stuff..this is great not that i got the chance to read the full page but all in all a good start. i agree with comment number 3 “did u just break up??” all your writtings sounds like you just had a sad break up or something….lol….just kiddin
keep up the good work i am sure you will do good in this
take care
Randy
Hey Randeep…am pleasantly surprised to see you here…glad that you decided to visit my blog..thanx for all the encouragement and NO, there are no break-ups here…stop assuming u guys…my writing doesn’t reflect sadness!!!!
Well,Rightly said ! I CHOOSE to leave a comment on your every post !
Is dat good enough Choice to begin with ?
Ruchi